After a quick search, I discovered the world of 'jerk off instruction.' I'd later use the genre as a tool to punish him.
For example, he told me he liked to watch joi porn. I knew a little bit of the language used in the D/s community from erotica and eavesdropping on Twitter conversations, but sometimes he'd reply with a term that left me googling so I could fake expertise. In my mind, I started to call him Baby Sub because it became clear he, too, was exploring, but I made him call me ma'am or Miss _ (a name I won't reveal here). After a few messages, I gave him my Google Voice number and we began texting.
